For You

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Coaching is about you. 

Wonderful, intelligent, sensitive you.

Yes, you are special. 

Coaching is about serving that specialness and allowing your uniqueness to  flourish. 

Nothing removes blocks, depression, fear and wounds more than knowing in your heart and soul that you deserve to be acknowledged, encouraged, safe and wanted.  

But here's the thing.

Deserving is an actual skill. So few of us have learned this skill and don't even actually realize it is a skill.  

But think about it. Who teaches us? No one.

Deserving allows you to thrive in every area in your life.

It means you become a person conscious of your authentic needs and knows how to meet them authentically.

 You turn into a great leader because you are accountable to your vision and capable of clarity in expressing what needs to be done.

You can fall madly in love because you aren't expecting someone else to give you what you already have, and you know how to ask for what you want -honestly.

 You become a better friend, family member and a much happier partner.  Your self-care explodes organically.  You want to take care of yourself.  

You learn another skill; permission to stop hating yourself for hating yourself. 

WHAT?  Yep. Permission is a great skill that comes with deserving. And here's why.

Guess what is the polar opposite of deserving ?  

Can you guess?

It's guilt. Guilt is the opposite of deserving. Guilt sets up the inner reaction that you're not safe, because it means you'll be punished, and that sets up fear. 

And man, is that fear a killjoy. It's job is to keep you small.  It tells you not to speak up, settle for less and deny each and every one of your wants, needs and desires.

 It's why you walk away from the book you want to write, not charge more for your services. It's why you can't lose the weight. Can't find a relationship that nurtures you. It's why you keep giving up.  

And, to top it all off, you feel guilty for your fear, for your failures, for your guilt. It just doesn't stop.

You feel guilty for hating yourself.

You feel guilty for not being happy.

Let me share something with you that might help. I have been mentoring and coaching men and women for decades and this is the core beneath every  issue. It manifests in every single area of life.

Once you learn how to give yourself the permission to deserve - and you authentically meet your integrity based needs and desires, you feel so empowered and all that fear and guilt and stuck-ness.. transforms and you can consistently use them as the jumping off place to your  new superpowers.

 Nothing can hold you back once you tap into Deserving and Permission.

Not loneliness, shame, creative blocks, fear of success, addiction issues, co-dependancy and relationship issues, fear of intimacy, anger, depression, sexual dissatisfaction... you name it.

Deserving and Permission.

Let me show you two simple skills that will change your life on every single level and you can finally deserve- and achieve -everything you've ever wanted.

Email me here: infotarashannon@gmail.com